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For those who carry influence<\/p>

This is not about your company or your role. This is about you<\/em>.<\/h1>

You are here because the usual instruments have stopped working. Not your strategy, not your skills, not your knowledge. There is nothing wrong with them \u2014 they are simply not what this is about.<\/p>

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\"Steven<\/div><\/section>\n

You carry influence.That is why it has impact.<\/span><\/p><\/section>\n

Who this is for<\/p>

Four positions, one common denominator.<\/h2>

Entrepreneur, self-employed or owner-director<\/h3>

Everyone looks to you for direction. You can turn to almost anyone for business advice, and to almost no one for what is going on in your head and your heart.<\/p><\/div>

Leader, in public life or in an organisation<\/h3>

What you say is weighed, always and everywhere.<\/p><\/div>

Manager of people, projects or processes<\/h3>

You are accountable for outcomes you do not control on your own.<\/p><\/div>

Top athlete, individual or team player<\/h3>

Performing is your profession, and performing is exactly what no longer comes by itself.<\/p><\/div><\/div>

What they share is not in the job title, but in the person.<\/em><\/p><\/div><\/section>\n

The common denominator<\/p>

The way you are present determines the room others experience.<\/h2>

Think of a meeting you walk into with your own unrest still in your pocket, and how you notice the room moving with it.<\/p>

Think of that one conversation in which your presence was so steady that the other person said something he had never put into words before.<\/p>

That is what it means to carry influence. Not as a quality you possess, but as the effect of how you perceive, listen, respond and take up space.<\/p>

It also explains why it weighs. Whoever carries influence also carries what goes unsaid.<\/p>\n

That you keep functioning while things are not well is not a weakness. It is the price of carrying.<\/em><\/p><\/div><\/section>\n

What comes along<\/p>

You live on three levels at once.<\/h2>

I<\/p>

You are a person with a history.<\/strong> Experiences, patterns and inheritances that shape how you experience the world.<\/p><\/div>

II<\/p>

You take part in systems larger than yourself.<\/strong> A company, a family, a squad, a sector. They move with you and against you.<\/p><\/div>

III<\/p>

You carry influence.<\/strong> What happens inside you determines what becomes possible around you.<\/p><\/div><\/div>

Everything comes along. You keep nothing out of relation \u2014 no part of yourself stays outside the conversation, not even the part that does not belong to your role. That is the only way to reach the essence.<\/p><\/section>\n

How it works<\/p>

Slowing down until your perception is at its clearest.<\/h2>

At the sharpest edge, your presence and your perception are your most powerful instruments. For yourself, with the other, in the situation.<\/p>

Here you slow down to the pace at which your presence becomes tangible and your perception is at its clearest. That is where what is going on becomes visible \u2014 and what of it is yours.<\/p>

Transformation is not an abstraction. It is the meeting point of insight and ownership.<\/em><\/p><\/div><\/section>\n

What people report afterwards<\/p>

Calm under pressure<\/p>

Space appears between what happens and what you do with it. Not responding more slowly, but responding from something other than the first impulse.<\/p><\/div>

The people around you notice sooner<\/p>

Those who feel safe report bad news earlier. How much information reaches you depends less on your door than on your state.<\/p><\/div>

Something that was stuck comes loose<\/p>

A decision, a conversation, a departure. Usually not the decision you expected.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/section>\n

In their own words<\/p>

He alternates sharp questions, observing, listening, mirroring and confronting at a high level. You feel comfortable within no time and really get to the core.<\/q>